Shift Your Love

Today, we're diving into a deep and undeniably painful topic that's tough to talk about but necessary. We're getting honest about something messed up, making my head spin. We're talking about when someone you looked up to in the church does the unthinkable: hurts our kids. And then, the crazy part—we're wrestling with feelings for this person. It's a messed-up situation, but we talk about it.

Alright, so your pastor, someone you respected, goes and does something as vile as molestation. That's a hard pill to swallow. There's no excuse for this. It's a betrayal of everything the church stands for. And here you are, stuck with these conflicting emotions. I mean, how do you even start to deal with that?

You're on an emotional rollercoaster you never bought a ticket for. You're angry and sad; part of you might still care about this person. That's right, I said it. It's okay to admit it. Love isn't a light switch; you can't just turn it off, even when you wish you could.

But let's get one thing straight: the real heroes here are the brave boys and girls who have been hurt. They need our strength, our support, and, heck, a whole lot of love. We can't get so caught up in our feelings that we forget who needs us.

Now, let's get to another hard truth. Some parents might feel torn about exposing the truth because of their loyalty to the church or the pastor. I get it; it's complex. But listen up, this is non-negotiable: our kids come first. Period.

You might be scared of the scandal, worried about the backlash, or even in disbelief that someone you trusted could do such harm. But remember, protecting an abuser doesn't just harm your child more; it could put others at risk, too. We can't let fear or misplaced loyalty stand in the way of justice and healing.

These young ones, they've been through enough. They need to know they're believed, supported, and loved unconditionally. They need to see that their parents are their fiercest advocates, ready to fight for them no matter what. This is about standing up for what's right, even when it's hard or shakes the foundation of your faith community.

So, let's make a pact here. No more silence, no more turning a blind eye. It's time to step up, speak out, and ensure our kids know we have their backs. Because at the end of the day, protecting and supporting our children isn't just our responsibility; it's our sacred duty.